Tantra or Prostitution?

Here is a sample of what I face every day of my working life:

On 07/17/12 9:07 AM, (TM) wrote:
-------------------- Thanks for the connection so that I can discuss my needs with you; I've had mixed results from Tantra practitioners since every practitioner does things differently. Although everyone presumes a full male release is part of a tantra session, I've had at least one tantra practitioner not provide a male release (and charge me a small fortune). Another practitioner advertised a "male g-spot" ceremony, yet didn't touch my male g-spot. So you can see, the results can be much less than what's expected. If you're a real tantra practitioner who's willing to provide a full male release (with both of us completely nude of course) and massage my male g-spot, then I'd like to make an appointment with you. Please let me know either way.

My response:

You may visit my website to learn about how I work: www.sensualwisdom.com. I am not willing to engage in sessions with someone that starts to attempt to control the session before we even meet. I only get nude with someone when I feel absolutely safe and respected. If you think getting sexual release is the most important thing about a tantric session, then quit calling it tantra and call it what it is: sex for money. That's illegal in most places. I'm so sorry to learn that you think everyone 'presumes a full male release is part of a tantra session.' It is not, and should not be the focus if someone is truly teaching tantric techniques.

Massaging your 'male g-spot' as you put it entails me inserting my fingers into your rectum to reach your prostate. I only do that for my very best and closest lovers, as I find it strenuous and, if a person doesn't know how to prepare for it (as in, have an enema within an hour prior to the session), I also find it distasteful. You couldn't pay me enough. Really. If, on the other hand (teehee) you had an interest in learning yoni massage and sacred spot massage for women, I might agree, after we have spent several sessions together, laying a foundation of comfort, respect and safety for BOTH of us, to begin to teach you how to touch a woman in her most intimate parts. But I'd have to see a big shift from the tone of your initial inquiry.

Thank you for your interest in my work. If you'd like to correspond after you have read all my sites, feel free to write me directly at jade@sensualwisdom.com.